Saturday, December 3, 2011

On dating... or lack thereof

Living out here alone gives you a lot of time to think.  A. Lot. Of. Time.

And a lot of time to reflect.

My relationship ended roughly a year ago.  If I honestly reflect on how things were, they were pretty rough the three months prior to the break up.  So, point being, it's been a while.  I've had a lot of time to get over the break and give myself some closure....  I saw give myself because I honestly feel that I was not going to get it from my ex, so I had to realize what I felt went wrong and make that closure myself.

Where am I going with this?

Well, it's been a year and I am ready now.  I am ready to move on and *gasp* ready to date again.

I consider the moving on stage a two fold process.  First, you become ready.  Check.  Then, you start dating.  

Um......

Yeah.  So.... I need to start working on the second step.  Actually dating.

But, I think (even though it took me a bit longer) that I am ready now.  And that will certainly make things easier.  Hopefully, moving to an area where I am closer to people and don't feel so secluded will help with the actual dating.

1 comment:

  1. I know you will find someone and that guy will be extremely lucky to have you. Will keep my eyes open. :)

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